Have you been flirting with someone and want to blow his mind even he is not in the same room with you? Or it could be that you’re in a long distance relationship, but you still want to keep your partner happy?
Well texting plays a big role in this modern romance. And there’s a lot of ways to enjoy the relationship even though you’re part away from each other. Through texting, you can heighten intimacy, being close to your partner, and multiply the sexual energy between both of you.
Talking dirty is not an easy task to do for someone who’s not used to it but it’s important to keep your relationship fun and exciting. It’s my belief that it’s important for you to learn and try something new to keep your relationship interesting.
If you’re new to this kind of topic, you may need to check my other post, why do men love dirty talk. Basically, it’s all start with his brain. Man brain are responsible to determine sex drive and sexual pleasure. Main objective of dirty talk is to excite your mind.
Honestly, a simple text message can excite them, make him want you and blow his mind. He will be crazy for you, trust me! But don’t overuse this idea, read this list carefully and use it to your partner in a smart way. And don’t forget to bookmark this page for your future references.
- If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?
- Guess what I’m thinking? It involves my tongue and …..you without pants.
- I’m just lying in bed bored. Do you has any idea better than sleeping?
- I’ve had so many dirty thoughts about you today. Wanna hear some of them?
- I really miss you between my leg.
- I love how naughty you are. Do you have any more surprise for me?
- I’ve had a long day today. And all I could think about today was your sexy body and what I want to do with it.
- I’m just lying in bed without my bra.
- People playing football on the field, then what should we play on the bed?
- What do you want me to do with you tonight?
- Have you ever fantasize about me sexually? Be honest and tell me…
- What’s your best sexual fantasy about me? Mind to share?
- How was your day? By the way just wanted to tell I am alone tonight.
- I didn’t know someone could turn me on so much as you do.
- What’s one thing that you want me to do to you? Anything…
- I want to kiss you so badly right now.
- Guess my bra color that I am wearing tonight?
- I will be your prisoner tonight.
- Let me be your slave tonight.
- Can I be a part of your favorite fantasy?
- I know what you want and I think I am ready.
- I really like your tie, let us use it tonight.
- My clothes are coming off the moment I am thinking about you.
- I want you to go deep inside me as hard as you can.
- Show me how bad you can be. I want to see how naughty you get.
Sexting example to send to your man.
It could be to your boyfriends or your husband. You can send him some sexy text message that will turn him on. It doesn’t need to be XXX to excite him, sometimes being less explicit can actually tease him more. You just need to play with his secret fantasies.
- I would love to put my tongue all over your sexy body right now.
- What you do if I was in your room right now?
- Don’t work to hard. I want you to have a plenty of energy for me tonight.
- If you can guess my underwear color, you can take them off.
- Tonight, let me do all the work. We’re going to take it slow and you’re going to scream.
- I want you to lie back and let me take care of you tonight.
- I am going to make you come so hard.
- I want you to tease me until I can’t take it any longer.
- You may look at it, but you cannot touch it, YET.
- How do you feel about whip cream? or Chocolate syrup?
- The thought of you gets me so horny…
- I’ve been lying on my bed naked, thinking about how you feel and what you gonna do.
- Nothing gets me wet, but the moment you touch me, I get wet inside…
- You’re not very good at pretending you don’t want me.
- Where do you want to touch me the most?
- I’m watching a sexy video of a guy who looks just like you.
- I’ve been a bad girl today, and I need someone to punish me tonight.
- It’s so hot to imagine that you’re tying me up.
- I keep getting this dream of you trying to undress me, are you really want to do that?
- I want to lick your ice cream so badly.
- My roommates are gone this weekend. We can be as loud as we want tonight, and I want to be loud.
- I’m touching myself right now, wish you were here to please me.
- Today is your birthday, want me to serve you tonight?
- If you want to serve me on my birthday, I really wish everyday is my birthday.
- Do you know how to turn me on?
- It doesn’t matter where I am. I’m yours tonight.
- I’m lying on my bed, waiting for you with my legs open.
- I thought of something I want to do to you tonight.
- I can’t control myself when I am thinking about you.
- Did you want to choose on what should i wear tonight?
Bonus Content: Change from sexting to phone sex
If you’re already done a lot of sexting, you can try this method.
Get yourself turned on and aroused and ready to go for more.
The perfect time to do this is when you know he will answer the phone, and he’s alone.
When he picks up the phone, you can straight away get to business using this detailed in sexting examples.
Tell him that you need to hear his voice. And let him know that you’re so turned on and already touching yourself. Invite him to your sexual fantasies, describe how you wish he was there what you want him to do to you.
Ask him to wear a blindfold. Then you need to be detail with the situation, tell him that you will tied him up, use different items on his skin. As example, ice cube, a feather, or massage oil.
Create a story based on your sexual fantasies.
Ask him to follow whatever you say.
Taking control and telling him what he is going to do is very erotic. Make sure he response everything you ask.
You can ask him something like this:
1- Tell him to undress
2- Ask him to undress you
3- Inform him how you want he seduce you
4- Direct him to kiss, suck and nibble various body part
Instruct him the position or speed that you want.
Give him the feedback if you want him go harder, or don’t stop!
Tell him that he’s been a bad boy and this is the time to punish him.
Give him permission to orgasm.
This is so much of excitement. Especially for a long distance relationship, this is one of the ways to enjoy your relationship.
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More sexting Idea to turn your man on
Sexting also been viewed as a prequel to foreplay. It’s like a foreplay before foreplay to turn your partner on. Do not go overboard with sexting because it may look weird and loss his magic. All you need is just a hint of sexual explicitness.
You just need a basic idea on how to sexting, then you can play around with this list and generate your own sexting style.
- What is your favorite fantasies of us in bed?
- Here’s a riddle for you. What is cute and nice and sometimes hard all over?
- I just got out of the shower. You should come over and help me get dirty again.
- Did you want to lick my mountain?
- What else will you do to me? Please tell me more.
- I miss feeling you inside me.
- Why I can’t take your wet kisses out of my mind?
- I can’t stop thinking about my lips touching all over your skin.
- Nobody home tonight, I don’t mind scream as loud as you want.
- Try wearing nothing below your waist tonight, my finger are getting anxious to feel you there.
- I have a dream with you last night, but it’s stopped half way leaving me horny and unsatisfied.
- I love to see your beautiful face while you feel the climax.
- You make me so slippery between my legs.
- Are you alone tonight? Because I am ready to play.
- Can you be my slave tonight?
- Sometimes I can’t help to touch myself when I think about you.
- Sucking on a blow pop right now and wishing it was you…
- I am going to sleep right now, and I will need a help taking my bikini off.
- If you got any problem please let me know. I am here for you, and I can give you a hand…and my mouth..
- Tonight I’m wearing easy-to-remove clothing.
- What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had about me? I love to hear it right now.
- Can you make me scream tonight?
- I want to buried your face in between my legs.
- I can’t stop thinking about tasting you you in my mouth.
- I’m thinking about you… completely naked.
Use things that you like to fantasize about.
Sexting can bring a lot of sexual tension between couple. It’s create an atmosphere of sexual desire but there still exist physical boundaries. It’s look like you can feel it but you can’t touch it, YET. This is very tempting and men’s love this!
- I’m not wearing any bra, can i wear your hand tonight?
- I want you to sit back and relax while I lick that cute nice thing.
- I love how soft your balls are.
- It is so long and big, plus it’s really hurts when it goes deep in me, still I am desperate for it.
- Every time you make a visit in my dreams, I wake up wet in the morning.
- I am waiting for the day to be with you in the shower.
- I’ve been listening to some really naughty music and it immediately reminded me of you. Want to act out the lyrics with me tonight?
- Tell me what you think about when you masturbate, or should we do it together?
- You had no idea how much I want you inside me right now.
- I want you to tease me until I can’t take it any longer.
- Good morning. I dream of you being naughty with me. But when I woke up, i still feel horny and unsatisfied. What should I do?
- I love thinking about you spanking me and pulling my hair.
- You want me to ride you tonight?
- Did you love to hear me moan? Because that is what I’m gonna do right now.
- I love the way you slowly whisper into my ears when you bang me.
- It’s an amazing feeling I get when you bite my neck, squeeze my boobs, grab my waist, penetrate me deeply and treat me like a bitch.
- I want you to hold me tight in your arms and do whatever you want.
- Do you have any idea on how to please me without using your both hand?
- Stop thinking about me naked! Because I am right now.
- Just wanted to let you know that I find you very attractive and sexy…. and I just want to put my mouth on your mouth
- What is your one sexual fantasy you always wanted to try? I am ready to hear you out.
- How do you feel when I kiss your lips and neck with my hand inside your pants?
- I know what’s going in your dirty mind, guess what? I am ready to be part of it.
- I can’t believe how good it feels when you are inside me hmm…
Before you sexting, make sure your partner comfortable with this first. Ask his opinion first even though I am 99% sure that he will love it. When you’re sexting, use the words you and your partner typically use. Put any inside jokes or personal memories that both of you shared, to make it more interesting and fun.
If you don’t know where to start, simply start talking about your favorite sexual memories. Or you can refer to this guide, how to talk dirty to your man.
Sexting is the same as talking dirty. You need to try and practice. Read this list for a few times to get a basic idea and be creative!