Ending a relationship with someone you love is the most terrifying moment toward couples. The transition of breaking up is worst, it’s like you are already finding the right person yesterday but today you stop talking to them. You stop reminisce all the good memory and bury it as it never happened.
Break up is hard enough, moving on make you utterly devastated. It is not easy to forget the past and move forward. The longer your relationship, the more intense your memory with them and it torturing you. When you have moved on, you start to look for someone to replace it.
A happy and long-lasting relationship is a dream most of the people. Break up left up scars but it rarely stopping you to find a better person. Every failed relationship is an opportunity to find someone who is more suitable. Here are some tips finding the right person for a better relationship.
1. Improve yourself
Get out from your comfort zone and try to do something new that will give benefit to you. For example, you can try joining charity work, entrepreneur, and bakery. From there, you will encounter a lot of people with a different background. Only then you will realize that there are a variety of people who are a lot better than your ex. And try to make some friend. It kills two birds with one stone.
2. Find someone who is opposed to him
There must be a reason why you were having a hard time with your ex. Maybe he or she has an awful behavior that you cannot tolerate at all or they didn’t appreciate you? Because those reasons unintentionally could be the main factor for you to break up. So try to avoid it by finding someone who is opposed to him.
3. Get along with your future partner’s friends
Mark Twain once said that “Love seems the swiftest, but it is the slowest of all growths. No man or woman really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century.” The point is there but it takes a lot of times. So, the other way you can do is try to get along with their friends. The closest the better as you can dig as much as you can about them because they might keep their true colors from you in the beginning.
4. Identify good values
Find and hold on the good value in them. It is like a secret potion that prevents separation. How does it work? By holding on good values in your partner, you will think numerous time before asking for a breakup. Because you are afraid that no one can replace your partner. In other words, you will more appreciate them without you realize it.
5. Take some time before going to a serious relationship
Do not rush in your relationship. Ask some advice from experts like your parents as well as married siblings. Their experiences may give you some tips that you can apply to meet or choose someone better.
Perfect one does not exist but finds someone who can embrace your imperfection. It is a slow and tiring process yet worthwhile.