Every women dream of a happy ending in their love life. One way to pursue their dream is by marriage. Unfortunately, not everything goes as planned. Sometimes it can end up with a divorce.
Lack of intimacy is one of the common reasons for divorce. Intimacy is not always about sex, it is a feeling of connection between you and your partner which sweeten your relation. In order to become intimate with your husband, you need to make him have eyes only for you.
Here are the 5 simple steps to get your husband attention.
1# Be gorgeous
Women tend to take a lot of effort to look good during their dating days. She wants to show how femme fatale she is. Start from nice hair, full face makeup, sexy dress, and aromatic perfume will surely lure him.
Unfortunately, after years of marriage, your look has not become your priorities. You may create a lot of excuses to look grubby and shabby. A “grandma” nightgown now becomes a nightmare and a major turned off for your husband.
Not to mention some women who think that they are not really into the “latest” fashion or just only dress nicely when they are out with their girlfriend. Be careful, as men can recognize how frumpy you are without you realize it.
In order to prevent all those things, you should show the gorgeous side of you to your husband by maintaining your basic hygiene. Always brush up your appearance by smelling nice, go for facial, let your hair done and also waxed your arms and legs. Don’t hesitate to spend some money on beautiful lingerie to show your figure as well as to boost your confidence.
2# Make him smile
You are the only girl I love right now. But in about ten years, there will be another. She will be calling you “Mommy”.
How do you feel after reading this quote? I bet you’re smiling by yourself because you think it is sweet. Same as our husband they also like sweet and romantic things just like we do. Thus don’t stop flirting with him.
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Express your love every day. Tell him how much you love and value him. I’m pretty sure that we commonly do not have much time to think or say something just to get his attention. But there is a lot of other ways that you can do.
For instance, you can leave a small note with his lunch telling that you love him or think of him. Or you can express it through action by care for him in sickness.
Here’re some extra tips, if you have a zero idea on what to do, you just think again what you did back when you were dated. There’s must be something that will make him flatter back then, he’ll still flatter it today or who knows maybe even more.
3# Put on the apron
My mom always says that to win a man’s heart is through his stomach. Therefore, you can make his favorite dessert or meal as cooking is an admirable quality. It makes him love you more. It does not matter if you’re not an expert, but the effort that you put in the making of his favorite meals. He will appreciate that.
4# Greet him
Sometime, your husband might stressed out with his workload at the office. He will feel drained and fatigued when he returns home. So what you can do is, greet him at the front door with your brightest smile. Take his bag and serve him with a cup of coffee.
Avoid nagging or whining over something you feel dissatisfied during this critical hour as it’s can lead to an argument. Let him rest first and prepare a warm bath for him. He will surely feel loosen up and happy because he has a really great wife. This can make him appreciate you more. He also will be coming back home early as you are his chill pill.
5# Share interest with him
If you have your own career and doesn’t have much time to spend at home, maybe you can follow these tips. Spend quality time together by taking part in his hobby or interest, it could be his favorite sports, games or movies.
This is a good way to spend quality time. From there, he will feel really close to you and appreciate you for being next to him, as a friend and life partner.