Have you ever face a problem, that your junior fall in love with you? If yes, congratulation! At a certain age, women’s choices have been limited due to some reason. It could because of age, marital status, and more. So if you added a younger man as a consideration, you have increased the opportunity for your love and romance.
How to date a younger man?
Thanks for the society nowadays, women can expend their freedom of choice. You didn’t need to be rich and beautiful to date a younger man. What’s more important is, how open are you to accept this relationship?
Ask yourselves this question, are you willing to accept a younger man as your partner? If yes, then read our top five tips on how to date a younger man.
1- Do not treat him like a child
It’s the most common mistake that women make when dating a younger man, she treats him like a child. The truth is, if he old enough to date you, then he is not a child. So the first step is, you need to treat him like a man.
Learn to respect him as a partner, listen to his opinion, and give him some space to make a decision. Do not interfere with all his decision just because he’s younger than you. I bet you didn’t want to make him feel like he’s going out with his mother.
2- Expect the unexpected
Younger men usually came from a different generation, so there must be a different way of thinking. They grew up with a dissimilar family environment and society. As an example, maybe his mother is a working woman, so he admires and respects powerful women.
The younger generation also sees women as equals. Because women nowadays can do almost everything what man can do. She goes to work, build up a career, do business, play sports, and more. So the younger generation always sees women as equals.
Whereas the older man has been thought to see women as accessories to their lives. Women in their generation were staying at home, prepare the meal, take care of the children, and do housework.
These different environments shape a different mentality. That’s why from my own personal observation, I’ve seen a lot of younger dad has been very helpful to their wives. They shared the responsibility to do the housework, take care of the children, and even cooked.
But don’t be surprised if your younger man has an unexpected level of self-awareness. He may have an emotional capacity that you didn’t expect. Always be prepared when you decided to have a relationship with a younger man.
Honesty in communication will be very helpful to overcome this situation. Read my other post on how to communicate effectively in a relationship.
3- Try to guide him
Maybe you’ve already at top of your career, financially stable, and already have a few assets. Meanwhile, he still looking for his life goal, experience, career development, and not financially stable.
Honestly, it’s could be a little bit challenging for you to date that kind of man. But if you really love him, you need to give him some time and space for him to develop his future.
Try to guide him and share some good advice for him to move forward. You can be his lover, his mentor, and his idol.
4- He’s probably had more sex than you
Don’t be afraid of this topic. It’s true that men tend to sexually peak at a young age, but the good news is women’s sex drive is strongest at their’s 30s-40s. At this age, you will be more daring, have more confidence, and maybe have a lot of experience than him!
According to WebMD, one study showed that women between 27 and 45 had more frequent and more intense sexual fantasies than younger and older women. They also had more sex and were more likely to have it sooner in their relationship.
Okay, let me ask you. Who’s here insisted to have sex with the light on at their young age? Yes? It shows that you don’t have enough confidence with your body (you know that better than anyone else).
For me, women are sexy and attractive wasn’t because of their curve and slim body. She was sexy because she has confidence in her body and not afraid to become naughty on the bed.
5- Ignore what other people might be saying
People around you might start gossiping a lot about you. And some of them might come to you to convince you to stop this relationship for certain reasons. You need to be ready for that. If you believe that your relationship is your true love, just go for it.
You can slowly convince your family members and your close friends to accept this relationship. Most of them will eventually understand your situation and welcome your new partner.
While there can be many obstacles to date a younger man, but they’re also a lot of benefits to dating younger. Just spend more time to take better care of yourselves. It will be a great experience for you. Good luck!