Have you ever wondered how to tell if someone is deeply in love with you? Quite sure it’s yes right? Sometimes a person in front of you may be in love with you, but you didn’t realize it. Or maybe, you also love that person, you just not sure if he shares the same feeling or not.
It’s not an easy task to tell if someone is in love with you or not. However, some relationship experts do believe that there a way to tell if someone has a stronger feeling for you. With a little bit of detective work, you will know if that person secretly loves you (let’s hope so).
How To Tell If He’s In Love With You or Not?
Maybe he hasn’t said “I love you” yet, or he already said that magic word but you still not sure whether he really serious about that or just playing around. Whatever the reason, there are a few ways to know if he truly loves you or not.
Basically, there are a few ways that can give you hints on whether he is attracted to you or not. It could be signs of strong physical attraction or from a simple gesture that will catch your attention.
All you need to do is pay attention to what he does, what he says, and how he acts in front of you. Here I share a few ways how to tell if someone is deeply in love with you.
1- He treats you differently
Everyone has their own busy lives, it could be because of school, work, and any other commitments. So one person will not easily spend their time on someone who’s not important to them.
But if someone really cares for you, whatever the reason, he will try to make his time available for you. If he doesn’t have time, or he can’t make it to meet you or something, he will make sure to let you know.
When he starts make time for you (treat you as a priority), means that he really loves you. Because when a man loves you, you become one of the most important people in his life. I will not say you are the only one most important person in his life if he still has other family members, especially his mom and dad.
2- He looks at you…. a lot
When someone loves you, he will start to stare at you directly through your eyes for a longer period of time. Or it could be that he loves to look at you secretly when you look back at his eyes, he will shyly move his eyes over.
According to Zick Rubin, a Harvard psychologist, he found that people who’ve has a stronger love connection tend to hold eye contact for a longer period of time than those who are a weaker love connection.
He also said, normally two people in conversation give each other eye contact is around 30-60%, but if those two people are in love, their eye contact will be around 75% during the conversation. They are also slower to break away their look from each other when interrupted.
3- He remembered the little things
He remembered extra little things, which is not even you remembered. Why? Because when he loves you, he pays more attention to the little thing (but please don’t blame your boyfriend if he did not remember anything after you read this ^-^).
When you are in the dating phase, someone who loves you will remember your birthday, your favorite food, your first date, and more. Don’t be shocked if he even remembered the first time you talked to each other.
4- He shows respect for your views.
If you love someone, you need to respect that person. There will always a difference between you and your lover, it could be a difference in food that you like, a difference of mindset, and a difference of opinion.
The truth is, it does not matter if he was the opposite typed from you. Because the most important things are how open can he accept your perspective as valid? Even if he disagrees with your opinion, he will let you express your voice out and listen to it carefully.
5- He introduces you to the important people in their lives
The more people he introduces to you, the more likely he likes to be closer to you emotionally. As an example, he starts to introduce you to his best friend and family members.
He also wants to meet your family and your friends. He will make an effort to get to know them and made a good impression, he wants them to like him also.
Why? Because he wants to immerse you in his life and vice versa. He wants all his best friends and family members to love you the way he does.
How To Get His Attention?
The key to making a man fall in love with you is to tackle his attention. When you truly capture his attention, he can’t stop thinking about you. His mind is practically glued to you. It’s become your pure charms.
Even if you’re apart from each other, he will constantly be thinking about where you are, what are you doing, and what are you thinking.
Sound familiar? I believe you also experienced something similar when you’re in love with a man.
Let’s take one example, when you’re in a room with him, with a few more people around. Your brain constantly tracking where he is, and who he is talking to. Maybe you do not even realize, but your eyes automatically searching for him. Right?
It shows that he’s basically got your attention!
The more you think about someone, the more attention you’ll pay to them.
So, if you’re hoping that man thinking the same about you, obviously, you also need to get his attention. Once you had that, you will have complete control over him in a way you never thought possible.
Psychological Trigger That Can Grab Man’s Attention
Things like cliffhangers, curiosity, and incomplete information are tools that can make any men crave to know more.
It’s the same concept used by Hollywood screenwriter, they draw an audience into their movies and force them to pay attention for hours at a time. They also use a movie trailer to ignites audience curiosity.
These psychological triggers are called attention hooks. Which can tap directly into the focus system of a human brain’s.
Basically, you can use this attention hooks to capture your man’s attention with a simple text message. And force him to pay his full attention to you. Check my other guide on what to text a guy you like to learn more.
As a result, it creates a desperate feeling of love, infatuation, and obsession over you. He will fantasize about you all day long. And he’ll find his own reason to see you, kiss you, hold you like he’s never been before.
It does not matter whether you want to start a new relationship, make a current relationship interesting, or even get your ex back to have another chance with you.
But if you had no idea or not sure how to use this attention hook with a text message. You can follow Amy North’s advice. She teaches women to create and use text messages for the past few years, and create a complete guide for women on texting men.
It’s included hundreds of Attention Hooks text message examples that can be used instantly to hold his attention for you. Here the link