It’s not easy to start a conversation with your crush right? Most of the time, you’ll just be dreaming that you already have a conversation with him.
That day, was the best moment ever!
I have finally found a light that can drive out the darkness of my life.
The light that makes my heart goes crazy whenever I bump into him. His captivating smile has melted my wall and let my guard down. Thinking of him is now my favorite daydream.
Was the day that I met my first crush.
At least once in a lifetime, we might have a strong attraction or crush towards someone. The way they walk, talks or appearance make us admired them intensely but it does not last long.
If you are lucky enough, your crush might like you back. When two people have affection towards each other, then it is love. Although it rarely occurs, there are several ways to catch their attention.
1- Conversation is the key
The conversation is the key, brave yourself to start a conversation with your crush so that he or she will notice your presence. Stop them just for conservation might seem awkward. You can use any of your social media if you want but try to make a great conversation first before asking their number. Be careful of not getting caught by request it casually with really low pressure.
For example, “Hey, I think chatting through cell phone is much easier, why don’t we trade cell phone number?”
2- Start with a text message
If you already got his phone number, then text message can be very helpful. By using text messages, you can take your time to say the perfect things to him.
You also can re-check your message before you hit the send button. The barrier itself can allow you to be more open than you’re in person. I definitely suggest you check my other post on what to text a guy you like.
I share a lot of text message technique that you can apply to your crush.
3- Plan your strategy
Choose your topic wisely and arrange your questions to ensure the coherence of the conversation. Questions that are too personal put them in an uncomfortable situation. A long conversation will annoy them while short cause boredom.
4- Do not rush in expressing your feeling
Take your time in telling your crush about your true intention. It is very significant to make them feel comfortable with you. Sudden confession causes them to be startled and cut off contact.
5- Observe their reaction
You can determine whether your crush has interest in texting with you by observing their actions.
If their reply is too short or it looks like want to end the conversation, you better take a break. It could be because they are busy or not in a good mood. Do not push them because its look like you are too desperate.
In contrast, if their responses are positive by asking you question such as ‘what are doing?’ It’s mean that they are enjoying talking to you. So grab this chance to know them better. Avoid from ending the conversation, let them end it.
After you are confident enough find a suitable chance for you to confess.
6- Find their interest
Some people don’t talk much not because they don’t like it but they are clueless about those topics, shy or has nothing to say. Therefore, your job is to find their interest. You can ask about their hobby or activity that they involve.
7- Be sympathetic
True crush means you know them like the palm of your hand. Your crush sometime might have a very bad day. Then, that is the time when you text something to console or cheer them up just to show them that you care.
Good luck in confessing to your crush. And well done if you already catch their heart. You may need the extra knowledge on how to start dating after you read this article.
On the other hand, if you got rejected by your crush, don’t worry they are plenty of fish in the sea. So who knows you might catch a big one later on. Cheers!