It is not easy to start a conversation with your crush right? Most of the time, you’ll just be dreaming that you already had a conversation with him.
First, let me ask you guys, who’s here have this kind of dream or fantasy about their crush? When you read the phrase below, you will think that “oh… this is quite similar to mine.”
That day, was the best moment ever!
I have finally found a light that can drive out the darkness of my life.
The light that makes my heart goes crazy whenever I bump into him. His captivating smile has melted my wall and let my guard down. Thinking of him is now my favorite daydream.
Was the day that I met my lovely crush.
At least once in a lifetime, we might have a strong attraction or crush towards someone. The way they walk, talk, smile, and even their appearance make us admired them intensely. We smile broadly and feel happy even though we just see them from afar.
A crush is a feeling of love and admiration for someone. It is often for someone you know that you cannot have a relationship with. But if you are lucky enough, your crush might like you back. When two people have affection towards each other, then it is love.
Although it rarely occurs, there are several ways to catch your crush’s attention.
1# Wait for the right moment
The first time is always the awkward one, but there is always a first time for everything. Wait for the right moment and place to start a conversation with your crush. Brave yourself to talk with your crush so that he or she will notice your presence.
A good conversation will leave a good impression and make them want to talk to you more. But the real question is, how to start a good conversation?
This is where you need to do some homework. Digging useful information about them can be very helpful, you can find out their hobbies, their interest, or anything related. Then you can use that knowledge to your advantage.
Make sure to start a conversation when both of you are free, you need at least a few minutes of conversation. That is why I said waiting for the right moment and suitable place is essential.
2# Start with a text message
Nowadays, sending a text message is an approachable and casual way to start a conversation with your crush. Texting is a lot less nerve-wracking compare to face-to-face conversations. So take a deep breath, take your time, and summon your courage to say the perfect things to him.
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The other good things about text messages are, you can plan what you are going to say and you also can re-check your message before you hit the send button. The barrier itself can allow you to be more open than you’re in person.
If you want to learn more about this topic, I definitely suggest you check my other post on what to text a guy you like. In that post, I share a lot of text message techniques that you can apply to your crush.
3# Plan your strategy
This is part of the plan that I mentioned in point number 1. For me, having a proper plan before you start a conversation with your crush will help you achieve your objective by the end of the conversation.
Choose your topic wisely and arrange your questions to ensure the coherence of the conversation. Questions that are too personal will put them in an uncomfortable situation. A short question causes boredom, while a long conversation might annoy them.
4# Observe their reaction
Observing your crush reaction is essential. It helps you determine whether they have an interest in you or not. It also helps you to react to the situation and plan ahead for your next step.
For example, you are contacting them through a text message, but their reply is too short and it looks like they want to end the conversation. If this happens, you better take a break. Back to point number 1, maybe it is not the right time.
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It could be that they are too busy or not in a good mood. So you should just take a step back, do not push them because it will make you look too desperate.
In contrast, if their responses are positive, and they also ask you a lot of questions, it could mean that they enjoy talking to you. If this happens, grab the chance to know them better. A good conversation is a good sign that they are interested in you.
5# Do not rush in expressing your feeling
Expressing your feeling too early might make them reject you. Sudden confession causes them to be startled and cut off contact. That is why you should not rush in expressing your feeling. Remember, good things take time, the same goes for your relationship.
Sometimes you have to hold back expressing your feeling because the situation requires you to do so. Take the time you need to develop the feeling. It is very significant to make them feel comfortable with you. When the time is right, you can tell your crush about your true intention.
Look for the chances to take it to the next level
Approaching your crush to has a conversation is not gonna be easy, especially if you are a “shy type” person. But still, you need to start somewhere, right? Don’t be too scared to try. Trust me, the only thing you will regret later is when you’re not even trying.
Be bold when the time is right. If everything is already within your plan, just go for it. You might want to thank me later. On the other hand, if you got rejected by your crush, no need to worry too much. They are plenty of fish in the sea. Who knows you might catch a big one later on.
That is all from me, good luck in confessing to your crush. And don’t forget to check another article: How to start dating. You might need this knowledge if you successfully move on to the next level with your crush.