5 Simple Ways Developing Positive Relationship

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Having a positive relationship makes you happier mentally and physically. You become less stressful and more productive. So it’s important for you to take the time to understand why you need a positive relationship in your life.

Let me explain…

Love or belongingness is the third level of human needs according to Maslow’s hierarchy after physiological and safety needs has been fulfilled. Despite many kinds of love, people tend to define love in a romantic relationship between two compatible individuals.

Typically, people exaggerate what they feel about love just like you will have a sleepless night, do not mind to sacrifice something even thing that you love the most and will stay around your partner even they are really annoying.

Well, believe it or not, most of it is true as love is a powerful, strong and positive emotional as well as mental state that gives you the courage to do all that.

Simple Ways Developing Positive Relationship

But, once you have reached another phase of life which is married you will hear or feel all the upside down about relationship and you keep questioning yourself. Why did this thing happen? It is because love getting fading away? What can I do to keep my partner happy?

Yeah, it sounds so messed up but remembers, ‘A relationship is like a house. When a light-bulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb’. So here is some secret on how to make our relationship as a positive relationship that lasts longer.

1# Communication is the key

Have you ever heard a song from Justin Bieber entitle “What do you mean?” This song might sound catchy but it actually tells us a reality, which a boy who is confused and always misunderstand what the girl wants.

So, in order to solve the problem we need to improve communication with our partner even on small things. Girls, do not let boy solve a puzzle that you create, they will hardly succeed while boys please encourage your girls to talk on what they feel frequently.

2# Let go of your ego

Ego is not something you should keep if you want to have a healthy relationship. Just tell him or her right away if you miss your partner or love them. Express your feeling sincerely by dropping your ego. Say sorry when you are wrong and ask for forgiveness somehow is the best remedy in facing a problem.

3# Be careful of what you say

When you were arguing with your partner beware of the words that you use. It is true that the tongue has no bones but it is firm enough to break a heart. Just like ‘A gentle answer turns away rage, but a harsh word stirs up anger’.

4# Nourish your love

Some relationship ends because they were bored with their partner. Same routine every day, tired getting off from work and also tremendous workload cause them to spend less time with their partner. Thus, they feel nothing interesting in their relationship anymore. Therefore, nourish love continuously would be the best answer.

Try to spend more time with them, for instance, go for a picnic, watch movies or vacation. A celebration on anniversary or surprise birthday party also is really recommended just to make them feel they are still valuable and precious for you.

5# Be mature in your relationship

Immature people tend to have an unsuccessful relationship because they kept on blaming each other despite finding a solution. Obstacles are much easier to overcome if you are being rational. Being immature is one of the most reason your partner pulling away from you.

Being mature is a skill that you should learn in order to keep your relationship strong and healthy. Your partner is also a human, which is capable of making mistakes. Let patience give you strength and maturity helps you make the right decision.

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