100+ Sexting Examples To Blow Your Man Mind

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Have you been flirting with someone and want to blow his mind even he is not in the same room as you? Or it could be that you’re in a long-distance relationship, but you still want to keep your partner happy? Here we compile 100 plus sexting examples for your man.

Well, texting plays a big role in this modern romance. And there’s a lot of ways to enjoy the relationship even though you’re part away from each other. Through texting, you can heighten intimacy, being close to your partner, and multiply the sexual energy between both of you.

Sexting is quite similar to talking dirty, and I would say that it is not an easy task for someone who’s not used to it. But it is still important if you want to keep your relationship fun and exciting.

Basically, it is all starts with his brain. Man brain is responsible to determine sex drive and sexual pleasure. The main objective of dirty talk is to excite your man’s mind.

Sexting examples for your husband

Honestly, a simple text message can excite them, make him want you and blow his mind. He will be crazy for you, trust me! But don’t overuse this idea, read this list carefully and use it to your partner in a smart way. And don’t forget to bookmark this page for your future references.

  1. If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?
  2. Guess what I’m thinking? It involves my tongue and …..you without pants.
  3. I’m just lying in bed bored. Do you have any idea better than sleeping?
  4. I’ve had so many dirty thoughts about you today. Wanna hear some of them?
  5. I really miss you between my legs.
  6. I love how naughty you are. Do you have any more surprises for me?
  7. I’ve had a long day today. And all I could think about today was your sexy body and what I want to do with it.
  8. I’m just lying in bed without my bra.
  9. People playing football on the field, then what should we play on the bed?
  10. What do you want me to do with you tonight?
  11. Have you ever fantasize about me sexually? Be honest and tell me…
  12. What’s your best sexual fantasy about me? Mind to share?
  13. How was your day? By the way, just wanted to tell you I am alone tonight.
  14. I didn’t know someone could turn me on so much as you do.
  15. What’s one thing that you want me to do to you? Anything…
  16. I want to kiss you so badly right now.
  17. Guess the bra color that I am wearing tonight?
  18. I will be your prisoner tonight.
  19. Let me be your slave tonight.
  20. Can I be a part of your favorite fantasy?
  21. I know what you want and I think I am ready.
  22. I really like your tie, let us use it tonight.
  23. My clothes are coming off the moment I am thinking about you.
  24. I want you to go deep inside me as hard as you can.
  25. Show me how bad you can be. I want to see how naughty you get.

Learn how to seduce your man over text.

You can send him some sexy text message that will turn him on. It doesn’t need to be XXX to excite him, sometimes being less explicit can actually tease him more. You just need to play with his secret fantasies.

Sexting ideas for him

  1. I would love to put my tongue all over your sexy body right now.
  2. What you do if I was in your room right now?
  3. Don’t work too hard. I want you to have plenty of energy for me tonight.
  4. If you can guess my underwear color, you can take them off.
  5. Tonight, let me do all the work. We’re going to take it slow and you’re going to scream.
  6. I want you to lie back and let me take care of you tonight.
  7. I am going to make you come so hard.
  8. I want you to tease me until I can’t take it any longer.
  9. You may look at it, but you cannot touch it, YET.
  10. How do you feel about whip cream? or Chocolate syrup?
  11. The thought of you gets me so horny…
  12. I’ve been lying on my bed naked, thinking about how you feel and what you gonna do.
  13. Nothing gets me wet, but the moment you touch me, I get wet inside…
  14. You’re not very good at pretending you don’t want me.
  15. Where do you want to touch me the most?
  16. I’m watching a sexy video of a guy who looks just like you.
  17. I’ve been a bad girl today, and I need someone to punish me tonight.
  18. It’s so hot to imagine that you’re tying me up.
  19. I keep getting this dream of you trying to undress me, are you really want to do that?
  20. I want to lick your ice cream so badly.
  21. My roommates are gone this weekend. We can be as loud as we want tonight, and I want to be loud.
  22. I’m touching myself right now, wish you were here to please me.
  23. Today is your birthday, want me to serve you tonight?
  24. If you want to serve me on my birthday, I really wish every day is my birthday.
  25. Do you know how to turn me on?
  26. It doesn’t matter where I am. I’m yours tonight.
  27. I’m lying on my bed, waiting for you with my legs open.
  28. I thought of something I want to do to you tonight.
  29. I can’t control myself when I am thinking about you.
  30. Did you want to choose what should I wear tonight?

Bonus Content: Change from sexting to phone sex

If you’re already done a lot of sexting, you can try this method.

Get yourself turned on and aroused and ready to go for more.

The perfect time to do this is when you know he will answer the phone, and he’s alone.

When he picks up the phone, you can straight away get to business using this detailed in sexting examples.

Tell him that you need to hear his voice. And let him know that you’re so turned on and already touching yourself. Invite him to your sexual fantasies, describe how you wish he was there what you want him to do to you.

Ask him to wear a blindfold. Then you need to detail with the situation, tell him that you will tie him up, use different items on his skin. As an example, an ice cube, a feather, or massage oil.

Create a story based on your sexual fantasies.

Ask him to follow whatever you say.

Taking control and telling him what he is going to do is very erotic. Make sure he response to everything you ask.

You can ask him something like this:

1- Tell him to undress

2- Ask him to undress you

3- Inform him how you want he seduce you

4- Direct him to kiss, suck and nibble various body part

Instruct him on the position or speed that you want.

Give him the feedback if you want him to go harder, or don’t stop!

Tell him that he’s been a bad boy and this is the time to punish him.

Give him permission to orgasm.

This is so much of excitement. Especially for a long-distance relationship, this is one of the ways to enjoy your relationship.

If you really enjoyed this, you must try the Language of Desire by Felicity Keith. It’s an awesome program that focuses on ways to overcome your shyness, lack of confidence that you may enhance your sexual life.

More dirty texts idea to turn your man on

Sexting has also been viewed as a prequel to foreplay. It’s like foreplay before foreplay to turn your partner on. Do not go overboard with sexting because it may look weird and lost his magic. All you need is just a hint of sexual explicitness.

You just need a basic idea on how to sexting, then you can play around with this list and generate your own sexting style.

  1. What are your favorite fantasies of us in bed?
  2. Here’s a riddle for you. What is cute and nice and sometimes hard all over?
  3. I just got out of the shower. You should come over and help me get dirty again.
  4. Did you want to lick my mountain?
  5. What else will you do to me? Please tell me more.
  6. I miss feeling you inside me.
  7. Why I can’t take your wet kisses out of my mind?
  8. I can’t stop thinking about my lips touching all over your skin.
  9. Nobody home tonight, I don’t mind scream as loud as you want.
  10. Try wearing nothing below your waist tonight, my finger is getting anxious to feel you there.
  11. I have a dream with you last night, but it’s stopped halfway leaving me horny and unsatisfied.
  12. I love to see your beautiful face while you feel the climax.
  13. You make me so slippery between my legs.
  14. Are you alone tonight? Because I am ready to play.
  15. Can you be my slave tonight?
  16. Sometimes I can’t help to touch myself when I think about you.
  17. Sucking on a blow pop right now and wishing it was you…
  18. I am going to sleep right now, and I will need help taking my bikini off.
  19. If you got any problem please let me know. I am here for you, and I can give you a hand…and my mouth…
  20. Tonight I’m wearing easy-to-remove clothing.
  21. What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had about me? I love to hear it right now.
  22. Can you make me scream tonight?
  23. I want to bury your face in between my legs.
  24. I can’t stop thinking about tasting you in my mouth.
  25. I’m thinking about you… completely naked.

Use things that you like to fantasize about.

Sexting can bring a lot of sexual tension between a couple. It creates an atmosphere of sexual desire but there still exist physical boundaries. It looks like you can feel it but you can’t touch it, YET. This is very tempting and men love this!

  1. I’m not wearing any bra, can I wear your hand tonight?
  2. I want you to sit back and relax while I lick that cute nice thing.
  3. I love how soft your balls are.
  4. It is so long and big, plus it really hurts when it goes deep in me, still, I am desperate for it.
  5. Every time you make a visit in my dreams, I wake up wet in the morning.
  6. I am waiting for the day to be with you in the shower.
  7. I’ve been listening to some really naughty music and it immediately reminded me of you. Want to act out the lyrics with me tonight?
  8. Tell me what you think about when you masturbate, or should we do it together?
  9. You had no idea how much I want you inside me right now.
  10. I want you to tease me until I can’t take it any longer.
  11. Good morning. I dream of you being naughty with me. But when I woke up, I still feel horny and unsatisfied. What should I do?
  12. I love thinking about you spanking me and pulling my hair.
  13. You want me to ride you tonight?
  14. Did you love to hear me moan? Because that is what I’m gonna do right now.
  15. I love the way you slowly whisper into my ears when you bang me.
  16. It’s an amazing feeling I get when you bite my neck, squeeze my boobs, grab my waist, penetrate me deeply and treat me like a bitch.
  17. I want you to hold me tight in your arms and do whatever you want.
  18. Do you have any idea how to please me without using your both hand?
  19. Stop thinking about me naked! Because I am right now.
  20. Just wanted to let you know that I find you very attractive and sexy…. and I just want to put my mouth on your mouth
  21. What is the one sexual fantasy you always wanted to try? I am ready to hear you out.
  22. How do you feel when I kiss your lips and neck with my hand inside your pants?
  23. I know what’s going in your dirty mind, guess what? I am ready to be part of it.
  24. I can’t believe how good it feels when you are inside me hmm…

Before you sexting, make sure your partner comfortable with this first. Ask his opinion first even though I am 99% sure that he will love it. When you’re sexting, use the words you and your partner typically use. Put any inside jokes or personal memories that both of you shared, to make it more interesting and fun.

This is too much, I’m not sure where to start…

Sexting is quite similar to talking dirty. You need to try and practice. But it could too much for someone who is not used to be in a relationship. So, if you don’t know where to start, I highly recommend you to check this post first: What to text a guy you like.

This post might help you get a clear idea of how to start a conversation with a man you like. Communicating through text messages can be easily misrepresented, so it is important for you to learn how to send the right message.

Other things that will be cover on that post are how to send the right signal, how to let them know that they are on your mind, how to open up a conversation and how to keep him interested in you. Okay that all from me.

Please leave a comment below if you have any other interesting examples.

Harry

Senior Dating Expert at Theuglyfact.com
“You see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough! You must take action.” – Tony Robbins
2 replies
  1. Avi
    Avi says:

    Ok so it’s someone I don’t know well, had a really passionate intense make out a long time ago… it’s been kind of awkward but kind of sweet re connecting by text but it’s been slow .. how about text “what if”. Or “i wish” we could meet as strangers somewhere again? I know he wants to meet again

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    • Harry
      Harry says:

      Hi Avi,
      You can try “what if” text phrase to activate his desire to wants to meet you. Which is you don’t need to influence him directly. You give him the freedom and opportunity to make a decision. I think that is a good idea for you to try.

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