Do you really want to turn your guy on and drive him all crazy for you even though you’re not there? Well if you’re interested in him romantically, then the answer obviously will be yes. And if you’re reading this, you might be thinking about what to text a guy to make him want you.
However, when you want to be involved in a relationship, or are already in a relationship, you need to know a few rules of texting to make your relationship long-lasting.
For modern relationships, there is simply no questioning the value of texting. Text messaging is one of the most innovative forms of communication.
“If a man tells you that you are drive him crazy, you are either doing something really right, or terribly wrong”
-Anasofía Fernández Aycinena.
YES! We, women, need to make our men go crazy about us, in a good way of course, not a bad way.
Essential Text RULES Every Woman Needs To Know
A simple text message will brighten a person’s day and it is also normal to have the need to make him happy when you are messaging your significant other. Sending a nice message is the perfect way to express your feeling through words as it helps show how much you care about it.
When you’re texting someone you’ve just met, or someone you’ve known for a while, having fun is the most valuable piece of advice for texting someone you find attractive. Always be fun and lighthearted about your messages.
The key to getting someone to like you over text is to make them happy and light up when they see your message. This is how you make a guy go crazy about you more.
First, you need to erase the negative perception that he has about you by showing him your BEST qualities.
So here are a few tips about how to make him want you more!
1# You should compliment him
Men love compliments more than anything in the world if it comes from the person that they loved or were interested in. You need to compliment him if you want him to be crazier about you.
It’s not wrong when you said something nice to him such as “you look handsome today” or “how can you be so sexist even in that simple shirt?”
Believe me or not, men will get all flattered when you keep raising about him more and more. But be careful, don’t ever, ever, and ever OVERDO it. Because when you overdo it, he will start to think that you are being dishonest.
You can compliment him when you two are going out together or even have a facetime together. But keep it low because this is the way of flirting that can make him go crazy about you.
2# You have to stay true to yourself
Rules no 2 is “BE YOURSELF”
This is very important because men prefer a girl who is being herself. Being yourself doesn’t mean you need to show all your flaws to him. You need to know how to handle yourself around him. Men tend to think that all women are having the same personality or behavior. This is the chance for you to show yourself.
Don’t pretend to be someone that you are not. Men hate lies as much as women hate lies. So the safest way is, be yourself.
If he does not like it then in the first place you really have nothing to do with him. Don’t waste your time trying to change his mind, as that ain’t going to happen. Find the right guy to make him go crazy about you by just being yourself. Staying true to yourself will help your chemistry and your connection flourish and hit their peak.
3# Don’t send a boring message, excited him
Men are so easy to turn off when women started to send a boring text messages. For example, you just sent “Hi” or “Hello“. This is a big NO.
Men love to hear something more excited from you, not just simple text messages. This will make him more bored and tend to leave you hanging on conversations. Every text message you send to a man, you need to fill it with joy and excitement.
When men are starting to getting more interested in you, they will try to capture your attention and they will be more desperate to want you.
4# Don’t use the short form when texting him
You must know that not all people love to use short-form or in an easy word, text like a teen. It’s normal when everyone trying to use the short-form in their daily life. But, when you want him to want you more, you need to use a full sentence.
Men really appreciated women who use a full sentence when texting them. In this way, they know that women really interested in them. And when you using a full sentence to messages them, they will know that you are matured and will appreciate you more.
5# Keep them short and sweet
Men don’t like women who keep sending long paragraphs for them. They prefer a simple and short text message for them to read. Because trust me, men don’t like to read a long text, they will easily scroll it and didn’t reply back.
Texts are not email addresses. They are supposed to be short. If you become long-winded to him in your text consider switching to a phone call or Facetime.
Keeping text short also offers the opportunity for conversation back and forth. If you have plenty to say, break it up into several lines to give him a chance to read and react.
All that said, don’t make several words long in each and every text you send out. Reply in full sentences, just do not create a wall of text.
6# Insanely romantic text messages.
Once you know how to use the right words at the right time, even the toughest of hearts have the ability to melt. You can drive him crazy and obsessed with you. Romantic messages are a great way for those who are in relationships and couples who want to rekindle passion and fire in their relationship.
Here are a few crazily romantic messages you can send to your boyfriend:
“I wish I could describe how I am amazed by your eyes and the sound of your voice makes me feel happy. How your smile makes my heartbeat off and how I feel complete every time I’m with you.”
“I don’t think anyone would make me laugh the same way you do. You just make me feel like the world’s luckiest girl.”
“Every minute you seem to capture my mind. There will never be a second when I don’t think of you or miss you. Your love still holds me in control.”
“I’d do anything right now to be able to curl up next to you, bury my head in your chest, and lock your fingers. I want to be able to look up and smile at you whenever I want.”
7# You need to stay positive
This is very important for you to learn. Keep the positive vibe. Men don’t like women who keep being negative towards them. They will feel offended by your action. As an example, don’t send any text messages that keep them feel attacked.
When they told you that they need space to clear their mind, don’t be desperate to think about the negative thought. Rather than reply with:
“What happened? Did I do something wrong? You didn’t love me anymore?”
You better reply with something like:
“Okay, babe. Take your time as much as you want. But remember that I will always be here for you”
It’s simple, isn’t it? Men love women who being understanding about them. This will make them feel more appreciated and they will love you more than anything.
8# Ask about his day
Like us, women, love when someone cares about us, the same goes for the men. Just ask a simple question like “Hey baby, how’s your day?” Trust me, when you ask them about it, men will be more excited to tell you a story.
Or maybe you can send a quick text like “miss you but need to rush to run an errand, will call you later and make sure you tell everything about your day. ttyl, love you”
And that’s how you make your man’s heart melt. It is important to know your man’s day even if you’re so busy. This will make them think that you love them and appreciated them more.
Just don’t begin every conversation every day like this. That will become repetitive and boring. Remember you want things to remain fresh and exciting, not boring.
9# Don’t try so hard
Keep everything under control, don’t try hard because it might work oppositely. Men are not interested in women who are being desperate to get their attention. They will think that women are being pushy and they might be scared of you.
Just be yourself, do your own thing, give him the space, and keep everything under your control. He will respect you because of that and would love to text you more.
Love is an unforgettable experience. It is one of the biggest experiences that life has to offer. And it’s something that everyone should enjoy and feel aspire to.
How is it that you keep a man entertained by text? Share your tips in the comments!
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